6 Things That Shocked Me About New Fatherhood

6 Things that Shocked Me about New Fatherhood

[This is a preview of a guest post I wrote for ESL Marriage]

Before I became a first-time father, I prepared. I took a pre-natal class with my wife, asked other parents what their experience was like, and read numerous blog posts and books about the subject. But even with all that preparation, there were many things about being a new father that surprised and shocked me. No one warned me about these things (or maybe they did and I wasn’t paying attention).
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What My Baby Teaches Me About Being Human

One of the best gifts of becoming a mother is that I have the privilege of watching the process of human development unfold before my eyes. As I’ve observed Allie, I’ve come to (re)learn some basic truths about what it means to be human. As an adult, I find it easy to lose sight of the fundamental qualities of my humanness so I’m grateful that my baby, in her unfiltered and uninhibited way, shows me and reminds me of these things.
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My Baby Learning to Walk (like a Small Drunk Zombie)

A baby learning to walk is like a small drunk zombie. Allie took her first few steps a week before turning 13 months. It took her about 4 weeks to master the art of walking, and we’ve enjoyed watching her progress. She stumbles around like she is drunk, and walks while stretching her arms out for balance (like a zombie). It’s the cutest thing to watch. Here’s a short video I put together of her progression over the last 4 weeks.
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Ducks have Invaded our House

Our house is full of ducks. For some reason, everyone has gotten Allie a duck. She has two rubber ducks, one I picked up at Walmart and a limited edition duck my mom lined up for in Osaka, Japan. There’s a giant duck my brother won at an amusement park and a small stuffed duck my brother’s girlfriend bought in Singapore. And then she has a duck jacket, a duck finger puppet, a duck shaker, a duck bib and more.
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