Will I Stay Single Forever? (A Story)

In July 2006, I was thoroughly struggling with being single. I had no clue at that time that by November of that year, I would be dating Tim. I only knew that at the age of 25, I deeply desired to be married and seemingly had no prospects on the horizon. I took a personal retreat that summer and one afternoon I had this vision. I wrote it in my journal and it carried me forward into the days ahead. I want to share it with our readers today.Read More

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Courage Is: Answering “Why Aren’t You Married Yet?”

[“Courage Is” is a guest post series of readers sharing their personal stories of courage and what it means to live courageously. This our friend ProdigalJ’s story.]

Weddings are something I love and dread. I love them, because I get to celebrate my close friends. They are so meaningful for me that for a special few, I’ve even cried (manly) tears during the ceremony. However, when the parties are over and we’re done celebrating ‘togetherness,’ it’s hard to not feel like I need to be with someone in order to be “whole.” As if being single isn’t enough, and that somehow I’m incomplete.
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My Introvert Life: As a Single

[My Introvert Life is a series exploring my introversion as it presents itself in various life contexts.]

I have a confession:  as a single person, I struggled immensely with accepting my introverted needs.  “Sorry, I need to hang out by myself tonight,” didn’t exactly sound cool, you know?  Mercifully, when I was in school, I had a lot of art classes, which allowed me to work in relative silence on my own.  And for most of my single years, I had the energy of youth on my side, so I could get away with hopping from one event to another without having to give it much thought.  For a while, anyway.

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